A wink of an eye will bring us over to year 2011... Sitting here blogging, takes me down memory lane for a stroll... Reflections of whatever has happened thus far, prompting myself with various questions that i could... How was your 2010? I bet it was good, but it could be better... Well, to me, the year started off wrongly, with consequences that i had beared.. Not looking back, but towards the future now... I am determine hard to start of my 2011 well.. and that i could sit here same time next year, blogging with a smile... www.xanga.com/ralia has established since she was in her teenage years... over the years, readers come and go, leaving footprints in my life... Thank you to all of you out there that has walked with me thus far... Even though i do not blog much, but this blog do have a deep sense of ownership and belonging for me... A place that i could rumble all that i could, cry out while blogging, having the deepest thoughts to myself... Some posts are protected or private... Certain privacy i would still lie in across... Have you set out your Resolutions for 2011 ? I have mine ready... Ain't sharing like the past years... Alot are repeats, but i would not want to paint bed of roses and lead a bed of thorns... I would share my accomplishments as i get closer to them... I still believe nothing and nobody in this earth indespensable... But most people come and go in our life... Some leave down deep etches in our heart and memory, while some, you wish they never existed... Tears flows, laughters laughed, heart breaks moments, grievance hurts... Aint all this a part of life?? As i shared on FB, i was typing them while taking a big step back, trying my best to take a look on the beauty of life... this is what i have got... 1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. It's okay to get angry with God. He can take it. 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 12. It's okay to let your children see you cry. 13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. 16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying. 17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today. 18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write. 19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 24. The most important sex organ is the brain. 25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you. 26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?" 27. Always choose life. 28. Forgive everyone everything. 29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch. 33. Believe in miracles. 34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable. 38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion. 39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. 42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 45. The best is yet to come. 46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. 48. If you don't ask, you don't get. 49. Yield. 50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift. Enjoy people.... For the greatest gift God has has place in your life... And Happy New Year! =)  
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